You don't get past discomfort by avoiding it.

You name it, find it, and move toward it, which feels like failure until you realize it's the only shortcut that exists.

Every day you wait, the interest on that avoidance grows.

The action is always cheaper than the debt.

You don’t realize how much you’ve grown until you stop reacting the way you used to

A good deal of frustration and unhappiness could be avoided if people would just do what they know they should do.

Men do not always marry the most physically attractive woman they date. They marry the woman they like the most.

Sometimes thats the same woman, sometimes not.

Despite common narratives, wise men evaluate the whole person and the life they expect to have with her.

Attraction may begin with appearance, but as many attractive women are not suitable for marriage it is simply not enough.

It is entirely possible that the woman a man marries is the second, third, or even fourth most attractive woman he dated, yet he chooses her.

He chooses her because of her other qualities combined.

Maybe he could have done better looks wise. If that was all he cared about.

His interest in her as a whole person does not diminish her.

And he is attracted to her. That attraction is why he chose to date her in the first place.

It may be unkind to dwell on the comparison, but it can still be the reality.

A fool admires complexity

A genius admires simplicity