SIGNS YOU’RE BECOMING UNTOUCHABLE :

• You don’t react—you calculate.
• You don’t get attached—you observe.
• You don’t seek validation—you know your worth.
• You make moves in silence—people notice after the fact.
• You can’t be manipulated—your emotions don’t control you.
• You focus on growth, not distractions.
• You let people think they’ve won—then outlast them.

Master yourself, and no one can break you.

YOU LEARN WHO’S REAL WHEN:
• Life gets hard
• The fun ends
• You set boundaries
• You start healing

Healing exposes the fake.
Growth exposes the jealous.

YOU SEE PEOPLE'S TRUE COLORS WHEN:
• You succeed without them
• You confront them directly
• You no longer need them
• You have nothing to offer

Fake love fades fast.
Pay attention.

YOU DON’T REALLY KNOW SOMEONE UNTIL:
• They gain power
• They go broke
• You tell them “No”
• You stop benefiting them

Watch who switches.
Loyalty isn’t loud, but betrayal always echoes.

8 Unwritten Bro Codes That Still Exist

• Never snitch.
• Don’t date your boy’s ex.
• Cover your bro’s tab if he’s down bad.
• Keep his secrets, sober or drunk.
• Always back him in a fight.
• No flexing in front of his girl.
• Support his hustle, even silently.
• Die with the dirt you know.

Gaslighting from People with BPD Traits

1. They deny things they just said.

2. They rewrite past events emotionally.

3. They accuse you of being the unstable one.

4. They shift blame to avoid guilt.

5. They make you feel like the problem.