She Said What She Said

Dear Men, remember this:

- Keep a sharp haircut, twice a month.
- Dress like you respect yourself.
- Smell good, always.
- Speak slowly.

Implement these, and people will respect you without a word.

NO MAN IS OBLIGATED TO TAKE CARE OF YOU Yes he can HELP but damn HELP HIM TOO

Sometimes she is still with you because she is broke.
The truth is, most of the women you’re dating or married to today are sticking around because they need a financial leg up. They’re broke, they’re jobless, and for now, you’re the answer to their problems. But pay close attention—once they start making money or find a new hustle, you’ll see them questioning the relationship. Suddenly, they’ll think they’ve “outgrown” you, or they’ll start talking about “finding themselves.” This isn’t an exaggeration; it’s a calculated move that too many men fall victim to.

Here’s a hard fact: among the wealthiest women in the world, most didn’t build their empires from scratch. They were handed massive settlements in high-profile divorces, used their marriages as launchpads, or were given stakes in companies started by their fathers or husbands. While Oprah stands as a rare self-made success story, she’s the exception, not the rule. Research from the Forbes Billionaire List reveals that over two-thirds of the world’s wealthiest women acquired their fortunes through inheritance or marriage. Names like Mackenzie Scott and Melinda French Gates come to mind—not because they’re self-made billionaires, but because they gained immense wealth through divorce settlements.

Think about the numbers: in the United States alone, women initiate nearly 70% of divorces. And for college-educated women, the rate jumps to 90%. Women are driving these breakups, and they’re often using the legal system to walk away with half of a man’s assets—sometimes more. Men are being stripped of wealth they spent decades building, while ex-wives profit without having lifted a finger to build those fortunes.

The financial impact of divorce on men is devastating. According to the American Sociological Association, men experience a significant income drop after divorce, while many ex-wives see little to no decline in their lifestyle, especially if they’ve secured alimony or child support. Statistics from the Journal of Marriage and Family show that divorced men face a 21% decrease in standard of living post-divorce, while women’s economic prospects can actually improve with the right settlements.

The predatory mindset is real. You might think she’s committed, but if she’s financially dependent on you, don’t be naive. The minute she finds a better financial situation, she’ll be thinking about the exit strategy. This isn’t some fairytale—it’s a harsh reality. From celebrities to everyday men, there’s a pattern here. Women like Amber Heard, who pocketed millions from Johnny Depp, are prime examples of how quickly some women can switch from “in love” to “lawyered up” when there’s money to be gained.

The system itself encourages this behavior. Divorce courts are not friendly to men—far from it. The scales are tipped in her favor, allowing her to claim alimony, child support, and a sizable chunk of any assets you’ve built. This isn’t empowerment; it’s legalized extraction, and you’d better recognize it for what it is.

Now, I’m not saying all women are out to drain you, but a lot are driven by financial motives. You need to be sharp enough to recognize the signs. If she’s leaning on you to make ends meet, don’t assume it’s loyalty. Make sure you’re on your guard and that your finances are protected. Real power comes from keeping your assets secure and knowing where you stand.

Men, this is about survival. Protect yourself. Understand that true loyalty comes from character, not convenience. The world is filled with women who see men as stepping stones.

HOW TO SEDUCE YOUR HUSBAND

1. TREAT HIM WELL
Men have emotions too. When you are mean, disrespectful or tough; he will struggle to sexually connect with you

2. DON’T DEMAND HIM TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU
If he has been spending less time with you, complaining about it will not make him get close to you. Instead, entice him, make him warm up to you. Be inviting

3. DON'T REJECT HIS SEXUAL ADVANCES
Don't turn him down repeatedly then want him to jump to sex when you want

4. BE EASY TO TALK TO
Be approachable, less reactionary and less dramatic. When a man feels he is walking on egg shells around you, intimacy will be affected negatively

5. PRAISE HIM
Tell of the good things about him. Notice his strengths. Don’t be the wife who complains more than she appreciates

6. FLIRT WITH HIM
Be naughty. Initiate flirting. Call him all manner of names, "Sexy", "I want your large tool inside of me", "I want you to eat me up"

7. FIND OUT HIS SENSUAL AREAS AND TOUCH THEM
Is it the nipples, his balls, scalp, back, neck? What areas gets him turned on. Touch there

8. BRAG ABOUT HIS SEXUAL POWER
Tell him the sexual things he does that you love. Is it the way he uses his tongue, his chest, how he does doggy style, how he sounds when he climaxes, how he goes deep inside you, how he sucks your nipples? What do you love him doing? Tell him. It boosts his confidence

9. TELL HIM YOU ARE WET
Tell him when you are horny. Let him know when you want some

10. DRESS SUGGESTIVELY
Wear lingerie, revealing clothes, or be naked in front of him. Give him a view he cannot resist. Know how to accentuate your body

11. SIT ON HIM
Sit on him if you can. Be the playful lady in his arms. Make him feel powerful

12. TOUCH HIS PENIS UNAPOLOGETICALLY
Grab it and play with it. Especially the lower tip of the penis

13. TELL HIM THE SEXUAL STUFF YOU WANT TO DO TO HIM
Communicate a preview of the sexual things you want to do with him. Prepare his mind

14. RIDE HIM
Push him to the bed or floor, remove his pants, take charge, sit on him and give him a good ride. 🏇🏻

Imagine this ..

Imagine being 8 months pregnant and the night before your DR Appointment your husband takes you out on a nice date. Real fancy restaurant, got your favorite flowers, a necklace and new charm bracelet, comfy new slippers, perfume, etc all to end up leaving you the VERY NEXT MORNING 30 minutes before your appointment time.

Back story, I met this man a few years ago and off rip he treated me like a queen. Our very first date was a night out in front of the lake. He was everything I ever wanted my ex to be. I’ve always acknowledged my appreciation for him and everything he has done. He has never cheated. Rubs my feet and belly faithfully, legit caters to me and my every need/want.

FAST FORWARD, while we were on our date I snapped pictures & videos of everything and I sent them to my ex. I shared how I wished it was him who did these things for me, how it was him I should’ve been pregnant for, and how I wished he loved me how I still love him and maybe one day we could come back from this. My husband saw these messages.

Now I know it was wrong but I love my husband and don’t want to lose him over stupid texts and hormones. I didn’t mean those things I’m just pregnant and emotional. How can I get my husband back? He has packed all his things and some of mine & left!