Ppl be so desperate to get close to you they’ll start going through 3rd parties just to get back in your energy. Baby what are you doing hanging w my 6th grade friend? He does NOT know me anymore LMAO.

I gotta start back watching wrestling 😅

Sometimes she is still with you because she is broke. The truth is, most of the women you’re dating or married to today are sticking around because they need a financial leg up. They’re broke, they’re jobless, and for now, you’re the answer to their problems. But pay close attention—once they start making money or find a new hustle, you’ll see them questioning the relationship. Suddenly, they’ll think they’ve “outgrown” you, or they’ll start talking about “finding themselves.” This isn’t an exaggeration; it’s a calculated move that too many men fall victim to. Here’s a hard fact: among the wealthiest women in the world, most didn’t build their empires from scratch. They were handed massive settlements in high-profile divorces, used their marriages as launchpads, or were given stakes in companies started by their fathers or husbands. While Oprah stands as a rare self-made success story, she’s the exception, not the rule. Research from the Forbes Billionaire List reveals that over two-thirds of the world’s wealthiest women acquired their fortunes through inheritance or marriage. Names like Mackenzie Scott and Melinda French Gates come to mind—not because they’re self-made billionaires, but because they gained immense wealth through divorce settlements. Think about the numbers: in the United States alone, women initiate nearly 70% of divorces. And for college-educated women, the rate jumps to 90%. Women are driving these breakups, and they’re often using the legal system to walk away with half of a man’s assets—sometimes more. Men are being stripped of wealth they spent decades building, while ex-wives profit without having lifted a finger to build those fortunes. The financial impact of divorce on men is devastating. According to the American Sociological Association, men experience a significant income drop after divorce, while many ex-wives see little to no decline in their lifestyle, especially if they’ve secured alimony or child support. Statistics from the Journal of Marriage and Family show that divorced men face a 21% decrease in standard of living post-divorce, while women’s economic prospects can actually improve with the right settlements. The predatory mindset is real. You might think she’s committed, but if she’s financially dependent on you, don’t be naive. The minute she finds a better financial situation, she’ll be thinking about the exit strategy. This isn’t some fairytale—it’s a harsh reality. From celebrities to everyday men, there’s a pattern here. Women like Amber Heard, who pocketed millions from Johnny Depp, are prime examples of how quickly some women can switch from “in love” to “lawyered up” when there’s money to be gained. The system itself encourages this behavior. Divorce courts are not friendly to men—far from it. The scales are tipped in her favor, allowing her to claim alimony, child support, and a sizable chunk of any assets you’ve built. This isn’t empowerment; it’s legalized extraction, and you’d better recognize it for what it is. Now, I’m not saying all women are out to drain you, but a lot are driven by financial motives. You need to be sharp enough to recognize the signs. If she’s leaning on you to make ends meet, don’t assume it’s loyalty. Make sure you’re on your guard and that your finances are protected. Real power comes from keeping your assets secure and knowing where you stand. Men, this is about survival. Protect yourself. Understand that true loyalty comes from character, not convenience. The world is filled with women who see men as stepping stones.

Sometimes she is still with you because she is broke. The truth is, most of the women you’re dating or married to today are sticking around because they need a financial leg up. They’re broke, they’re jobless, and for now, you’re the answer to their problems. But pay close attention—once they start making money or find a new hustle, you’ll see them questioning the relationship. Suddenly, they’ll think they’ve “outgrown” you, or they’ll start talking about “finding themselves.” This isn’t an exaggeration; it’s a calculated move that too many men fall victim to. Here’s a hard fact: among the wealthiest women in the world, most didn’t build their empires from scratch. They were handed massive settlements in high-profile divorces, used their marriages as launchpads, or were given stakes in companies started by their fathers or husbands. While Oprah stands as a rare self-made success story, she’s the exception, not the rule. Research from the Forbes Billionaire List reveals that over two-thirds of the world’s wealthiest women acquired their fortunes through inheritance or marriage. Names like Mackenzie Scott and Melinda French Gates come to mind—not because they’re self-made billionaires, but because they gained immense wealth through divorce settlements. Think about the numbers: in the United States alone, women initiate nearly 70% of divorces. And for college-educated women, the rate jumps to 90%. Women are driving these breakups, and they’re often using the legal system to walk away with half of a man’s assets—sometimes more. Men are being stripped of wealth they spent decades building, while ex-wives profit without having lifted a finger to build those fortunes. The financial impact of divorce on men is devastating. According to the American Sociological Association, men experience a significant income drop after divorce, while many ex-wives see little to no decline in their lifestyle, especially if they’ve secured alimony or child support. Statistics from the Journal of Marriage and Family show that divorced men face a 21% decrease in standard of living post-divorce, while women’s economic prospects can actually improve with the right settlements. The predatory mindset is real. You might think she’s committed, but if she’s financially dependent on you, don’t be naive. The minute she finds a better financial situation, she’ll be thinking about the exit strategy. This isn’t some fairytale—it’s a harsh reality. From celebrities to everyday men, there’s a pattern here. Women like Amber Heard, who pocketed millions from Johnny Depp, are prime examples of how quickly some women can switch from “in love” to “lawyered up” when there’s money to be gained. The system itself encourages this behavior. Divorce courts are not friendly to men—far from it. The scales are tipped in her favor, allowing her to claim alimony, child support, and a sizable chunk of any assets you’ve built. This isn’t empowerment; it’s legalized extraction, and you’d better recognize it for what it is. Now, I’m not saying all women are out to drain you, but a lot are driven by financial motives. You need to be sharp enough to recognize the signs. If she’s leaning on you to make ends meet, don’t assume it’s loyalty. Make sure you’re on your guard and that your finances are protected. Real power comes from keeping your assets secure and knowing where you stand. Men, this is about survival. Protect yourself. Understand that true loyalty comes from character, not convenience. The world is filled with women who see men as stepping stones.

4 Flavored Rice Recipes Recipe👇 Garlic Butter Rice 8 cloves garlic, chopped 3 tablespoons olive oil 2 ½ teaspoons garlic minced 4 tablespoons butter unsalted, divided 1 ½ cups white rice 2 ½ cups chicken broth 1 tablespoon scallions finely sliced Salt and pepper to taste Instruction: Heat oil in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add garlic chopped and saute, moving constantly, until golden and crisp. Transfer to paper towels to drain. Pour out excess oil then return to the stove. Add 2 tablespoons butter. Once melted, add garlic. Cook for 1 ½ minutes or until the garlic starts to turn light golden and the butter is well infused with garlic flavour. Add rice, stir to coat in garlic butter. Add broth, place lid on saucepan. Bring to a boil then immediately turn down to medium low. Cook for 12 – 15 minutes or until liquid is all absorbed by the rice. Tilt saucepan to check. Remove from stove but leave lid on. Rest for 10 minutes. Fluff with fork, transfer into serving bowl. Stir through remaining butter and scallions, or garnish as per photos. Sprinkle with crispy garlic, salt, and pepper. Serve. Cilantro Lime Rice 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil 1 1/2 cups white rice 1 clove garlic, minced 2 1/4 cups water 1 teaspoon salt Finely grated zest of one lime 3 tablespoons lime juice 1 cup lightly packed chopped cilantro Heat the olive oil in a medium saucepan on medium high heat. Add the raw rice and stir to coat with the olive oil. Cook, stirring occasionally, until the rice has started to brown. Add the garlic and cook a minute more. Add water, salt, and lime zest to the rice. Bring to a rolling boil, then cover and lower the heat to low to maintain a very low simmer. Cook undisturbed for 15 minutes (check your rice package instructions), then remove from heat and let sit for 10 minutes. Fluff the rice with a fork. Transfer the rice to a serving bowl. Pour lime juice over the rice and toss with chopped cilantro. Serve with chicken, steak, shrimp, Mexican or Asian food. Yellow Rice 3 tablespoons butter 1 cup white rice 1 teaspoon fresh minced garlic 1 teaspoon onion powder 1 teaspoon ground turmeric 2 cups chicken broth 1/2 teaspoon salt ground black pepper to taste 2-3 tablespoons fresh cilantro chopped Instruction: Heat butter in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add the rice and gently stir until rice begins to lightly brown. Add garlic, onion powder, and turmeric and stir until well mixed in. Slowly stir in chicken broth and raise heat to medium-high. Add salt and pepper to taste. Bring the mix to a boil then turn the heat to low and cover the pan with a lid. Simmer for 20 to 25 minutes. Remove from heat, add cilantro, and fluff with a fork. Serves 4. Mexican Rice 1 1/2 cups white rice 3 tbsp neutral oil 1/4 onion diced 1 garlic clove crushed 1 tbsp Knorr chicken bouillon 1/2 tsp garlic powder 2 roma tomatoes 2 cups hot water 1/4 tsp salt or to taste 3 sprigs cilantro Instruction: Over medium heat, add the oil to a non-stick pan, then fry the onions and garlic. When the onions and garlic have lightly browned, remove the garlic and set it aside. Add rice to the pot and toast the rice in the oil, moving it constantly for about 5 minutes or until it becomes slightly puffy and golden brown. Add the Knorr chicken bouillon, garlic powder, mix and continue toasting for another minute. Blend together the roma tomatoes and fried garlic clove. You should have about (1 cup) of tomato sauce. Add it to the rice, stirring constantly for 30 seconds. The color should change to warm reddish orange color. At this point, watch the heat to make sure the bottom is not burning. Adjust the heat if you need to. Add the HOT water to the rice. It has to be hot- if the liquid isn't bubbling on the sides of the pot, your water is not hot enough. Stir in salt to taste at this point if you're adding. I recommend about 1/4 tsp salt. Add the cilantro on top, continue boiling over medium-low heat until some of the water has evaporated. Then turn the heat to the low and cover for 20 minutes. Do NOT lift the lid! After 20 minutes, turn off the heat and fluff the rice with a fork. There will be a thin layer of tomato sauce at the top- that is what we want. Just gently fluff & mix it into the rice to distribute evenly. At this point, the rice is ready if you don't like overly soft rice. But if you want it more soft & fluffy, cover for another 10 minutes (no heat). Enjoy! Recipe courtesy of Recipe journal

As a man, strategic isolation is the price you pay when you start to fix your life.

A lot of ppl are starting to realize it’s WAYYYY more beneficial having you on their team rather than going against you. YOU were the secret sauce. 🤯

Y’all gotta stop getting mad when people try to humble you & start taking it as a compliment. people who want to “level” you already knows there’s an imbalance & want to bring you down because you’re on top….meanwhile you’re not even comparing yourself bc you have tunnel vision

If you’ve faced repeated betrayal or experienced people getting close just to cause harm, it’s time to embrace the power of exclusivity. Not everyone drawn to your light has good intentions—some seek only to dim it, to disrupt your relationships, or to infiltrate your space just enough to sabotage you when the opportunity presents itself. Guard your energy and start gatekeeping FIERCELY.

When you think y'all are vibing and then she starts telling you about her bills